Thomas Hardy and T.S. Eliot married their secretaries.
Dostoevsky married his translator. I married my webmaster.
It was love at first sight.
Men have gone their separate ways. This is why.
Before Satanists turned men into sex addicts,
and women in pornstars and whores, women
She liked it. to men due to the fact that she was useful as companions
(wife) and mother. Women gotta learn to sacrifice. That's why men love them.
Love perfection, but do not search it in a faulty fellow woman.
"And God said, It is not good for man to be alone; I will arrange a gathering for him." Genesis 2:18
ASK- This is simply a template that survived the trial of time. If you found a better answer, more power for you.
from 15 Oct 2019
Update: I almost felt my friend, a feminized man, shaking erstwhile I said: "Heterosexual Dynamomism is based on a man who convinces a female that his plan is in her best interests".
Like I said, men want power, women want Love. Heterosexual matrimony is simply a replacement of these two. Women quit power in exchange for the male power expressed in love. Exclusive sex is simply a symbol of this deal. I'm not suggesting that a female should obey all men, but only a man.who patiently deserved her love (trust) through courtship. If she stops agreeing or he stops loving, the deal will be broken.
Feminism (communism) taught women to prosecute power and compete with men. A wife may have power or love, but she cannot have both.
In our society, pathological emphasis is placed on "relationships". We're looking at another people for what we don't want or can't give.Paradoxically, this dependence on others hinders successful relationships. People don't believe in people who don't believe in themselves.The most crucial thing is the relation with His own self. God in middle. Soul. It's the only agreement we need.
A female should not be loved for her sex appeal or beauty. She didn't do anything to deserve it. These are gifts.A female should be respected for her actions.. On The love of a man gains the sacrifice he makes for himself and his children.
Updated since 10 October 2018
by Henry Makow Ph.D. I regret, I didn't realize the following. 55 years ago, erstwhile I was 20.
Men, marry your sister, not your soul mate. I've been married to 1 of them for 24 years. It works for me. If you can find a "brotherly soul", I bow before you.
Those who say helpers are boring, I say, "Hallelujah." I don't care about my matrimony erstwhile it comes to excitement. But my wife is not what feminists call a wiper. He has a master's degree and a career. She's smart and honest and has a sense of humor.
– You deny everything I say – I tell her.
"Not all the time," he replies.
I've been bringing her breakfast to bed for 24 years, which is simply a motion of my love and appreciation.
Here's my advice in 10 points.
1. Male He's moving his mind. Imagine a steak and he's drooling. Imagine a beautiful, half-naked female in handcuffs, and he gets excited. Whoever controls his thoughts controls him. Of course, it's best.if He controls his own thoughts.
2. Society suffers from mass hypnosis.
We were introduced by Hollywood into a false religion of romance and sex that displaced actual religion. Kabalistic judaic Hollywood Foundations They became our assumptions. These include:
Here's my advice in 10 points.
1. Male He's moving his mind. Imagine a steak and he's drooling. Imagine a beautiful, half-naked female in handcuffs, and he gets excited. Whoever controls his thoughts controls him. Of course, it's best.if He controls his own thoughts.
2. Society suffers from mass hypnosis.
We were introduced by Hollywood into a false religion of romance and sex that displaced actual religion. Kabalistic judaic Hollywood Foundations They became our assumptions. These include:1. romanticist "love" is the meaning and intent of life.
2. Men's life is impossible without women who are a model of virtue and beauty.
3. due to the fact that sex with these angels is the highest experience life has to offer, they do us a favour by sleeping with us. (The ethereal beings have no sexual needs.) Drum: "You're so wonderful; I request your love and I can't live without you" is repeated boring by popular music. There is no correlation between the look of a female and her character.
3.Romantic love is simply a false religion – idolatry. "Love" is simply a substitute for our relation with God. We love perfection. People aren't perfect. "Be so perfect, how perfect is your father, who is in heaven." Matthew 5:48). The soul mate we search is truly God.
4. For heterosexual men, "love" usually applies to a woman. But are women worthy of love? Most men confuse sexual attraction with love. After surviving, sex is our most powerful natural instinct. But that's it. Programming. We shouldn't let nature control us more than Hollywood.
5. What else can he do? In "old times" men sought women who could cook, clean, sew, milk cows and take care of children. Sometimes they could play the piano. Women were facilitators. They made something happen. Now many young women think they're only good for 1 thing, and that's getting old fast.
6. Men were not meant to "love" women in terms of their adoration.It always leads to trouble. We love what we want and want sex. But that gives them besides much power. Let's look at women, no sex appeal. Let's demist them. They're human, and most of them want their husband to take over.
Women are different from men. They tend to be more passive, emotional, subjective and practical. On walks, my wife warns me not to walk in dog shit. My head's in the clouds. He's on the ground hard.
Women are primarily curious in safety and may be little meticulous than men. They tend to be insecure and have a sense of worthlessness, unless a man gives them a purpose. These are good qualities of a helper, but not a soul mate.
Paradoxically, this kind of realism makes a man a more attractive to women who naturally despise men they can control. They want to be controlled with love.
3.Romantic love is simply a false religion – idolatry. "Love" is simply a substitute for our relation with God. We love perfection. People aren't perfect. "Be so perfect, how perfect is your father, who is in heaven." Matthew 5:48). The soul mate we search is truly God.
4. For heterosexual men, "love" usually applies to a woman. But are women worthy of love? Most men confuse sexual attraction with love. After surviving, sex is our most powerful natural instinct. But that's it. Programming. We shouldn't let nature control us more than Hollywood.
5. What else can he do? In "old times" men sought women who could cook, clean, sew, milk cows and take care of children. Sometimes they could play the piano. Women were facilitators. They made something happen. Now many young women think they're only good for 1 thing, and that's getting old fast.
6. Men were not meant to "love" women in terms of their adoration.It always leads to trouble. We love what we want and want sex. But that gives them besides much power. Let's look at women, no sex appeal. Let's demist them. They're human, and most of them want their husband to take over.
Women are different from men. They tend to be more passive, emotional, subjective and practical. On walks, my wife warns me not to walk in dog shit. My head's in the clouds. He's on the ground hard.
Women are primarily curious in safety and may be little meticulous than men. They tend to be insecure and have a sense of worthlessness, unless a man gives them a purpose. These are good qualities of a helper, but not a soul mate.
Paradoxically, this kind of realism makes a man a more attractive to women who naturally despise men they can control. They want to be controlled with love.
7. The full concept of "brotherly soul" is false and highly selfish. It is based on a time erstwhile women were not expected to think. They accepted the ideas of their husband, as well as his name. Many young men are inactive looking for these "brother souls". They're truly looking for themselves.
8. Distance is actually better than intimacy. It's a higher level of intimacy. This involves realizing that "hey, you're completely different from me" and "you're rather limited in any ways," but "I'm besides in another ways and we don't should be alike." It's about respecting differences. My wife was a supporter of Biden. I respect her limitations. We're not talking about politics.
"Love" in the common sense forces people to be besides close. He keeps men and women at an impossible level. People aren't that nice. I will be content with a bond based on respect, trust, consideration and gratitude. matrimony is better erstwhile the social force of being in love is removed.
9. Love is based on sacrifice.I love people who sacrifice themselves for me and benefit me from my doubts. I want to repay you. Get free of the romanticist bullshit and consider The basis of actual love is common dependence.
10. We don't realize how oppressive and time-consuming our sexual obsession is. I wasted my life chasing that chimera.
In conclusion, women sacrificed themselves for their husband and household and were loved in return. They have since been reprogrammed. Their minds are at war with their hearts. These are ticking time bombs.
No Santa Claus. "Romantic Love" is bullshit. Sex is an illusion. It is to be related to procreation, or at least to marriage. It wasn't expected to be recreation and full-time obsession.You don't should be sexually attracted to your partner to have large sex. And vice versa, sexual attraction doesn't translate into large sex.
8. Distance is actually better than intimacy. It's a higher level of intimacy. This involves realizing that "hey, you're completely different from me" and "you're rather limited in any ways," but "I'm besides in another ways and we don't should be alike." It's about respecting differences. My wife was a supporter of Biden. I respect her limitations. We're not talking about politics.
"Love" in the common sense forces people to be besides close. He keeps men and women at an impossible level. People aren't that nice. I will be content with a bond based on respect, trust, consideration and gratitude. matrimony is better erstwhile the social force of being in love is removed.
9. Love is based on sacrifice.I love people who sacrifice themselves for me and benefit me from my doubts. I want to repay you. Get free of the romanticist bullshit and consider The basis of actual love is common dependence.
10. We don't realize how oppressive and time-consuming our sexual obsession is. I wasted my life chasing that chimera.
In conclusion, women sacrificed themselves for their husband and household and were loved in return. They have since been reprogrammed. Their minds are at war with their hearts. These are ticking time bombs.
No Santa Claus. "Romantic Love" is bullshit. Sex is an illusion. It is to be related to procreation, or at least to marriage. It wasn't expected to be recreation and full-time obsession.You don't should be sexually attracted to your partner to have large sex. And vice versa, sexual attraction doesn't translate into large sex.
Love does it.Sex is simply a celebration of love. Sex in sex is demeaning, dehumanizing and is married sex.
Romantic infatuation is usually based on any perceived advantage alternatively than any real feeling. This is simply a woman's case and turns men into women. erstwhile a female sacrifices power for love, she's more feminine. That's how you make love to a female – Trusting Your husband. erstwhile men sacrifice power for love, they become women.
Men, decide what you want and look for a female who will aid you accomplish your goals. When you love individual without illusion, a soul mate can transform into another, better kind of soul mate.
Men, decide what you want and look for a female who will aid you accomplish your goals. When you love individual without illusion, a soul mate can transform into another, better kind of soul mate.
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Ken Adachi writes:
Christopher writes:
Your «Search for Helpers» hits a proverbial nail in the head. You are not alone in realizing these truths a small later, alternatively than early.
I have suffered terribly for “being a romantic” and for pursuing all the unattainable yet seemingly perfect “Les Wilis” (spirits). 1 female inactive regrets that she threw out all my amazing, incredibly romanticist love poems (inspired by her); An action dictated by her confusion, thanks to the bipolar nature of exaggerated absurd romanticism directed towards the beginning of feminist hysteria.
Despite the multitude of perfectly good, kind, helpful and attractive women; I thought I wanted to catch up with the goddess. Unfortunately, most specified "gods" were tormented by problems and intellectual illness, from anorexia to kleptomania and far beyond - frequently creating even dangerous relationships. It has become clear that society is targeting specified people, both by means of indirect and direct means.
Talk about giving up your innate power?!?
It wasn't just a somewhat flawed household dynamics that inspired it - it was just an old program like the 1 that can be found on TV. The average period of dating in that period of my life never exceeded six months. Unfortunately, fewer of these love interests have even remained friends.
On each level, all of this was an absurd waste, based on pulling out dysfunctional threads of problematic household life, and then on enhanced narcissism and hedonism programmed in a young, open mind.
Even clothes from that period (1970s and early 80s) tell this story. Young men were pushed towards a definitely feminized fashion, with untangled shirts, resembling skirts, large trousers with bells and shoes on the platform; while young women either transitioned from modesty to sexual fox outfits (such as super-short, hot pants), or adopted masculinized (see: Annie Hall) outfits. It was right before "I hatred you - come on-go", black eyes, the look of a bitch, from the late '80s and '90s. And in the same period he looked like a shark/slam from Wall Street for men.
Finally, after "adulting", and besides after reconsidering the actual nature and meaning of manhood, I began to announcement that the "age factor" is rather short-lived, and usefulness - yet - actually becomes a real romance. It took me a long time, but I can yet appreciate and respect all aspects of actual femininity, including those that are attainable, specified as: Loyalty, exclusiveness, trust, honor, faith, patience, charm and simple pleasance from being alone with an crucial typical of this sex who differs from my... Vive la difference!
You don't believe me? Just ask my wife, 17 years old.
No. No. However, I can agree with most of Henry's 10 advices on male-female dynamics, especially his utilitarian view of male-female relations and his rejection of the central function of love and romance in this relationship. Love is the central, dominant and creative force of the universe. We be due to the fact that God loves us. God created a female and a man to complement themselves perfectly and bear the fruit of His creation in this physical reality. We can only be happy and fulfilled in all our efforts if we fulfill these desires with love in our hearts.
Romantic Love IS love. There is nothing false or idolatrous about it. It's not just a licence for hormonal biological impulses. erstwhile we fall in love, we experience joy in our hearts due to the fact that we have become intertwined on the level of the soul with that person. I'm not talking about people who dishonestly say "I love you" for convenience or for courtesy. I'm talking about a man and a female who are in love with each another and feel it to the depths of their being. I don't like the common usage of the word "brotherly souls" in movies or as a pick-up text. He's thrown like confetti. This triviatizes the meaning of the connection of souls between a man and a female who are in love with each other. But don't make a mistake ~ it's a soul combination that has consequences that go far beyond the physical world.
I besides disagree with the concept of pecking order erstwhile it comes to your wife and God. Loving your wife with all your heart and soul is loving God with the same devotion. We usage the word "God" to identify the Creator, but God is not a being beyond us. God is in all man. The Indians understood this concept thousands of years ago. "The kingdom of God is inside," said Jesus. Realizing that God is inside is the key to seeking God. Jogananda was right. His devotion group called the Self-realization Community. Men and women manifest the divine plan by raising themselves to decent adults who follow the Golden Rule. They have fun, fall in love, rise children, age together in a life full of happiness and contentment. Doing the occupation you like is great, but the top happiness is surviving at home with a loving wife. There would be no divorce and its destructive effect on children if a husband and wife maintained a lamp of love in their hearts, behaved in a way that supports each another and avoids doing things that hurt each other.
I love large romanticist comedies shot in the 1930s, 40s, 50s and 60s before vulgar language became a fresh norm. A good movie inspires people and fills them with hope and joy. romanticist films from the Golden Age of cinema show men and women acting in a way that is more in line with decency alternatively than with the impossible to see mediocrity and vulgar garbage of the past decades. 1 day the avant-garde will make clean, decent films again.
Christopher writes:
Your «Search for Helpers» hits a proverbial nail in the head. You are not alone in realizing these truths a small later, alternatively than early.
I have suffered terribly for “being a romantic” and for pursuing all the unattainable yet seemingly perfect “Les Wilis” (spirits). 1 female inactive regrets that she threw out all my amazing, incredibly romanticist love poems (inspired by her); An action dictated by her confusion, thanks to the bipolar nature of exaggerated absurd romanticism directed towards the beginning of feminist hysteria.
Despite the multitude of perfectly good, kind, helpful and attractive women; I thought I wanted to catch up with the goddess. Unfortunately, most specified "gods" were tormented by problems and intellectual illness, from anorexia to kleptomania and far beyond - frequently creating even dangerous relationships. It has become clear that society is targeting specified people, both by means of indirect and direct means.
Talk about giving up your innate power?!?
It wasn't just a somewhat flawed household dynamics that inspired it - it was just an old program like the 1 that can be found on TV. The average period of dating in that period of my life never exceeded six months. Unfortunately, fewer of these love interests have even remained friends.
On each level, all of this was an absurd waste, based on pulling out dysfunctional threads of problematic household life, and then on enhanced narcissism and hedonism programmed in a young, open mind.
Even clothes from that period (1970s and early 80s) tell this story. Young men were pushed towards a definitely feminized fashion, with untangled shirts, resembling skirts, large trousers with bells and shoes on the platform; while young women either transitioned from modesty to sexual fox outfits (such as super-short, hot pants), or adopted masculinized (see: Annie Hall) outfits. It was right before "I hatred you - come on-go", black eyes, the look of a bitch, from the late '80s and '90s. And in the same period he looked like a shark/slam from Wall Street for men.
Finally, after "adulting", and besides after reconsidering the actual nature and meaning of manhood, I began to announcement that the "age factor" is rather short-lived, and usefulness - yet - actually becomes a real romance. It took me a long time, but I can yet appreciate and respect all aspects of actual femininity, including those that are attainable, specified as: Loyalty, exclusiveness, trust, honor, faith, patience, charm and simple pleasance from being alone with an crucial typical of this sex who differs from my... Vive la difference!
You don't believe me? Just ask my wife, 17 years old.
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source:henrymakow.com
