A widow does not end with a female [Ernaux, Rudzka, Fiedorczuk]

What emotional attitude can you have towards a sister you didn't know, who didn't be in the household tradition, whose grave was supposedly next to another household graves, but it was inactive a taboo subject? Kinga Dunin reads Loved Ones by Annie Ernaux, He who has teeth laughs by Zyta Rudzka and Porodziny by Natalia Fiedorczuk.